Pillow Talk – Red Flags

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Red Flags

Come to Pillow Talk Saturday May 20th @ 12pm
Our topic this time is Red Flags

“We all have these experiences when looking back we thought

” I should have seen this coming”

Often there where warning signs we overlooked.

What are lessons you learned from these experiences?

What for you is a Red Flag while dating in Second Life.

Let’s learn from one another and get wiser!”

This event is organized by Friends & Lovers

hosted at Commune Utopia

Here is your teleport to the meet up 

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My Red Flags for any situation is deceit.

If I feel like I am lied to or if I am lied to that is a huge huge red flag.

If someone misrepresents themselves to me I consider that a Red Flag.

Hiding things from me is a Red Flag communication is key.

For everything I try to listen with my body and mind.

Being mean is also a red flag.

In Second life trust is huge.

The layer of anonymous offers a sense of security.

Often the space of being anonymous opens us to reveal more of our selves on a personal level opening up to express things we hold back.

The freedom of expression and action in Second life can be enlightening.

With focus and insight, it is possible to work through issues that have held you back in life and knowing yourself.

Come on by Pillow Talk and join the discussion!

Your teleport

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Below are a few interesting or helpful links.

Caring Unlimited – Domestic abuse Red Flags

10 Relationship Red Flags – Psychology today

Red flags for a toxic Poly Relationship on Feral attraction blog

Intuition

Thank you

~ Owl

The O R I G I N A L S

Commune Utopia presents:

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The O R I G I N A L S

April 25th

8 am The Vinnie Show

8:30 am Pol Arida

9 am Whirli Placebo

9:30 am Lazarus Doghouse

 

The O R I G I N A L S

is a show case of Second life’s live original songwriters.

Yes!

These musicians are performing in second life,

writing as well as performing their own music.

These talented musicians share their heart soul and experience with us.

Original music and talented performers are alive and playing in Second life.

Come on out and give a listen!

You can find all of these musicians on

INDIESPECTRUM RADIO

 or Second Life @  http://indiespectrum.com:9000

Indiespectrum Radio plays SL Musicians Original Music 24/7

you can request songs in real time via the website!

33074282654_3d0e5feedf_oTHE VINNIE SHOW

Winner of 2016 Avi choice for Favorite Acoustic and Original songs. The Vinnie Show delivers you an hour of complete entertainment. Vinnie pours his heart and soul into every song and Live performance …. hoping to give something to each person in the audience.

The Vinnie Show is all about having fun together!

The Vinnie Show on Flickr

VInnies gigs – Google Calendar

Video and Music by Vinnie

POL ARIDA

Critically acclaimed RL songwriter.

He is mad, bad, thumping, screaming & without a doubt one of the most original & talented artists playing second life.

From Scotland, this highly original musician has a stage presence to widen the eyes…and that’s not even his excellent songs, which have words to make you think & cry.

Pol is a songwriting genius his music touches deep making you think and feel!

Check out POL’s great music and videos online @ http://polarida.com

Music and Video by Pol

WHIRLI PLACEBO

Quirky, eclectic. Original songwriter; Whirli Placebo 50% original, 51% WTF!

Whirli has been called “a slinky – toy of circles and curli-cues bouncing between fact and fiction and always fun.”

In 2015 Whilri was voted The Avi Choice winner for Original Song Artist.

Whirli’s you tube channel

http://www.whirliplacebo.com

Facebook

Music by Whirli -Video by Fushia Nightfire

LAZARUS DOGHOUSE

Lazarus brings to Second Life many years of Real Life music experience.

He grew up in the south with an eagerness and passion for music.

Lazarus sings and plays what he knows and feels from his heart.

He shares his stories and own view of life through his music.

Find Lazarus’s group on facebook

Music and Video by Laz

Thank you for reading

come on by and enjoy listening to these creative talented sl musicians.

Your Teleport

~owl

 

 

 

 

Virtual Relationships

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Virtual Relationships

The word Virtual is an adjective its meaning has evolved with technology’s advance in our world. One Virtual definition is being in effect but not in fact or name or close to but not quite something. A new definition describes virtual as existing or occurring on computers or on the Internet.

Close to but not quite something would imply that a virtual relationship isn’t real. I would disagree with this in many ways, your experience of something you believe is always real. An emotional exchange can have the same effects on the psyche in virtual space as in physical space. Sharing time, love, humor and fun virtually can exude warmth and connection even virtually.

Friendships and romantic relationships have been and are more frequently being forged virtually. In some ways, a virtual relationship requires more thought and effort as subtle visual cues are nonexistent. In some ways, more open in communication possibly due to the illusion of protection or distance may make it easier to share deeper feelings and thoughts.

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Alexia Paragorn  has put together a Second life meet up

PILLOW TALK

April 1ST 12pm slt

@ Commune Utopia in Second Life

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Pillow Talk

An intimate conversation about Love, Sexuality and Relationships

One of the most fascinating things within our virtual world are the connections we make with others, often we meet people we would not easily encounter in our regular lives or experiment with lifestyle choices and relationship styles.

Building friendships and love relationships on a virtual base has many benefits and also, its own unique challenges. With the freedom to explore our desires many more options open up to us and we are able to learn about ourselves and grow as individuals and gain beautiful experiences.

We would like to talk about all sorts of topics this brings up, have a discussion and an exchange of experiences and perspectives.

Let’s connect on a more intimate level, we invite you to join us

Commune Utopia Pillow Talk Location

Take this Teleport!

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Pillow Talk Facebook 

Commune Utopia On the web

This is Bound to be an interesting deep and enlightening chat do come join us!

More of my thoughts  on this subject I blogged Love Virtually

♡ ~owl

  • *above photos by Owl Flyer by Alexia

This takes place in the virtual world of Second Life.

You can sign up for free on the Second life website here.

 

 

 

 

Hippiestock 2017

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HIppiestock photo taken from Hippie Bowman’s flicker

Hippiestock 2017! Jan 21st 9am – 8pm

YES! All day long party and live Music!

You defiantly want to save this date and come by to join the party!

Hippiestock has been happening in Second Life since 2011.

Hippie Bowman puts this event on and originally came up with the idea to have a party with his second life Forum family.

Iam a late comer to this event but since 2014, I have gone to every one and loved it!

It is a party of the year not to miss!

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Peace from Tem Haalan HIppiestock 6

SO come on over Hippie is busy Building the site.

You are always welcome to come by and visit at

Lagrange Point Spaceport! Your teleport here.

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Jed Luckless and skyfire at Hippiestock 5

See you there ~ Owl

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Thankful

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Fall Trace photo by Owl

In America today is thanksgiving.

This year has been bleak dark and a very rough one for myself and many people.

My Father went into the Hospital in January and died in March.

My best friend got a horrible flesh eating infection and spent over a month in the hospital she is home now with so much healing still to do.

We are fiercely trying to protect water rights and the people in the forefront are getting hurt and persecuted.

America had an election and we are looking at the most horrible racist, self-righteous, ugly inside person to be our president.

It is hard to feel hopeful with this bleak darkness going on not only here but also all over the world. Opening your eyes and looking worldwide things are just as bad or worse.

Wow sorry. I am trying to write a positive thankful piece.

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Winter Trace photo by owl

What am I thankful for ..

I am thankful for the ability to spend those last 2 months with my father holding his hand and being there with him everyday.

I am thankful for the many years of love and friendship he and I have shared.

I am thankful that my Mothers trip to the hospital during that time was short and she is healthy again.

I am thankful for my friends safe return home and that she is Alive!

I am thankful for trees and how they are helping us have clean air to breathe.

I am thankful for people who stand up for the rights of us all.

I am thankful for clean drinking water.

I am thankful for healthy food.

I am thankful for people who love me.

The photos are from the fall and winter trace sims.

This years Fall Trace has been primarily designed by Elvira Kytori.

The Winter Trace has been designed by Kylie Jaxxon and Elvira Kytori.

Your teleport.

The trace on flickr.

Above video by Rising Appalachia

Much Love ~ Owl